I totally get the Daddy issues thing. My husband loves to bring up the whole Daddy comment when we're doing it. I suppose if you had a good relationship it might be one thing, but when you survived an abusive/destructive one like Xander and I, it's a HUGE turn off! Sadly no matter how many ways you explain it some people just don't get it.

Lol I feel Xander's pain. I would NOT want to think about my daddy while getting my brains fucked out. xD

Hehe, Spike's always prepared.