--A Series of Unfortunate Events copyright Daniel Handler--
Violet never thought that she could meet so many evil people or so many good people who do so many horrible things and it makes you wonder if anyone could get to heaven at all.
So there are those who make no sense or those that are good but don't help and those who are just evil and those who are good but nearly destroy you but you have to forgive them so they don't destroy you.
She only has one person in mind when it comes to the last example, but the point still stands.
She'll be climbing and climbing some kind of moral staircase but it will be exhausting and she'll probably fall when it comes to him but it's not the worst thing she could do.
In many ways, it's got that kind of poetic irony that sad poems are based on. Poem or otherwise, she'll fall apart.
But it will wait.