I am what I like to call a “Closet Fanfic Fanatic.” I love reading fanfics in order to relax and take a break from the world, though some of my closest friends make fun of me for it. My husband use to make fun of me but now he is hooked too and has joined my “Closet Fanfic Fanatic Club.” My love for all things Twilight is what made me seek out this site and I have been reading for months now.
My mantra is simple and that is, “The moments in our lives are not what define us; but what we do at those said moments does.”
We can’t control everything that happens in our life. Some of us are rich. Some of us are poor. Some have difficult life situations that we didn’t bring on ourselves. Some made poor decisions that got them in a “fu*ked up” (hard) situation. My point is life is defiantly not fair; and all we can do is make decisions that run in our favor. Not every plan can go exactly how we intend, but we do try to control the outcome. What most people don’t realize is we can’t control the outcome. We can only make choices and see their effect. After the effect is clear then we make another decision (and it goes on and on like that till we die).
What we have in life is free will. We all have the ability to make a choice in life we just have to deal with whatever effect it has good or bad. Regardless of your motives the choices you make have effects, and not just only you have to live with them. They affect everyone in your life whether big or small and that is why I believe in informed choices. Before you act, try to get all the information available you can. Sometimes you will find that the one piece of information that makes all the difference, is the one piece you think may not matter. Your choices now lead to better options in the future. You want better choices pick better choices now.
Be grateful for the things you take for granted in life. Be strong to change the hardships you face. Be brave in looking for the answers you seek. Be persistent and patient when finding that answers you need. But most of all, believe that you have the power to change things good or bad. Free will is a gift and only you can make yourself happy or sad.